Please come on time for your date.  If for any reason you are running late, let me know. There is a bathroom available in my in-call should you need to freshen up. I always show up looking and smelling my best and appreciate your cleanliness too. I don’t tolerate over intoxication or disrespect, including stigmatizing and demeaning language towards other people or communities. It is inappropriate to ask me identifying information about myself. I reserve the right to terminate any meeting at any time, should I feel that my boundaries are not being respected.